One of the hardest things for me is getting into the water at the pool or beach. Even on a hot day, the initial shock of my 98.6 degrees coming in contact with cool water creates a sudden chill. However, unless we’re talking about Lake Superior, the jolt lasts only a few seconds before the water feels really great. The refreshing sensation and the relaxing feeling of weightlessness far outweigh the momentary discomfort.
The only smart way to get into the water is to jump or dive. People who use this approach are called “plungers” (no relation to the “plumber’s helper”). You’ve certainly seen the other type. With them it’s almost a ritual. They sneak up on the water to scoop up a handful then, gingerly dip their toes. If that doesn’t scare them back to the car, they’re likely to wade in up to their ankles or even their knees. So far, so good! Little by little they go a bit further. Some will put their arms above their heads to keep them dry while the water creeps up their body. By the time the water reaches their bellies, the discomfort is apparent on their faces.
“Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.” — Unknown
They’ve now reached that critical decision point. “Should I keep going?” It takes considerable determination to go beyond the belly. That’s when many say, “I think it’s too cold today” or “well, maybe later” or “I didn’t really feel like swimming anyway.” Occasionally, a “toe-dipper” manages to get all the way in only to discover that this meaningless ritual did nothing but prolong discomfort, delay their pleasure, and put original intentions at risk. Getting wet a little bit at a time does nothing except make people second-guess their intentions before they experience the benefits.
“Commitment separates the doers from the dreamers.” — Unknown
There’s a third type in every group called the “splasher.” These folks embellish the way of plungers by speeding up the process for the toe dippers. While splashers are generally despised and regarded as mean-spirited, they are actually behaving in a very compassionate way. By rushing toe-dippers through the uncomfortable part, splashers are helping the toe-dippers do what they should have done on their own, that is, take the plunge and get the unpleasant part out of the way as quickly as possible. Have you ever noticed that once everyone is in the water together and having a good time, the toe-dippers no longer care so much about the circumstances that helped them get in?
“There are only two options regarding commitment. You’re either in or out. There’s no such thing as a life in-between. “ — Pat Riley, basketball coach
This story is about commitment, the mindset needed for success in life. Whether starting a business, raising a child, or buying a car, it makes no sense to begin with a “try it out to see if it works” mentality. Once the research is done and the decision is made, there’s no room for timidity. It’s time to …
“Just do it!” — Nike Corporation
Getting started under a cloud of fear and doubt is a formula for failure. Be bold! Be resolute! Be committed! Without the plunger’s attitude, the first sign of trouble will send a toe dipper back to the car. Toe-dipper, plunger, or splasher — which kind of person are you? Which kind of person would you like to become?
“As the time approached for him to be taken up to heaven, Jesus resolutely set out for Jerusalem.” — Bible, Luke 9:51
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