Five Habits of Success

Today’s message is short and sweet: “Success is the Reward of Good Habits.”  Here are five such habits that will transform your life…

  • Right Values with Positive Attitudes Leads to Positive Right Actions.
  • Strategic Thinking Reveals Opportunities, Priorities, Plans and Accountability.
  • Development and use of Gifts and Skills Leverages One’s Potential.
  • Personal Investments of Time, Money and Energy Feeds Professional Growth.
  • Intentional, Unselfish Devotion Toward Others Builds Winning Relationships.

“The fastest way to success is to replace bad habits with good habits.”
– Tom Ziglar

The Saddest Excuse for Mediocrity

One of my childhood friends liked to say this…

The more you study, the more you learn. The more you learn, the more you know. The more you know the more you forget.  The more you forget the less you know, so why study?

He made me laugh!  I assumed that was his intent and not his philosophy because he was a good student and a good friend.  Today it’s not so funny.  I see people living their lives this way, in fear of the responsibilities that come from high achievement, excellence, mastery and proficiency.  I imagine the following thought process spinning around in their minds…

The more I prepare, the better I become. The better I become, the more I can achieve.  The more I achieve, the more people expect of me.  The more people expect, the busier I get.  The busier I get, the more stressful my life gets.  The more stressful my life gets, the less I will achieve.  The less I achieve, the worse I become, so why prepare?

In other words, this imagined sequence reflects “fear of success.”  Some will miss the irony and significance of their rationalization.  Others will just laugh it off, not admitting their fear.  Still others will simply choose to be in denial.

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The truth is simple.  This preparation formula demonstrates the reality of fear and why people settle for mediocrity.  It’s real, it’s unnecessary and it’s NOT FUNNY!  Since it’s a serious matter, we should be engaged in stomping out mediocrity by inspiring parents, teachers and others to leverage their influence to help others dispose of limiting beliefs by replacing them with empowering beliefs.  Most importantly we should be helping the young people closest to us become who they were meant to be.  That responsibility gets me up and going every day.  What about you?  Who do you know?

P.S. There is undoubtedly someone close to you that is unprepared for the future. If their developmental gaps include productivity, professionalism, relationships or leadership, then perhaps they would benefit from LEAP, my on-line course.  Learn all about it at: www.MoEaH.org.

The Making of Superheroes

Zig Ziglar said you were “designed for accomplishment, engineered for success and endowed with the seeds of greatness.” In other words, YOU were born to be a superhero!  As such, your mission (you should decide to accept it) begins with the following four assignments…

  • Assignment #1:  Be intentional and be prepared. Do something everyday to learn and grow. There’s no time to waste. People are mired in mediocrity and they need a superhero you!  Prepare yourself to “save the day!”
  • Assignment #2:  The Lone Ranger had a partner known as Tonto. Batman had Robin at his side. Choose your Robin and bring him or her with you to the next superhero growth opportunity.
  • Assignment #3:  Invite your superhero colleagues to participate in superhero growth experiences. Then, help one another learn, develop, grow and sharpen each others superhero powers.


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Preparation – The Law of True Opportunities

Opportunities are Gifts

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True opportunities are the results of alignment with our internal gifts and the happenings in the world.  They are neither accidental nor coincidental.  Just like talents alone, true opportunities are gifts.  Our abilities to benefit from them is the cause-and-effect reward for doing the right things, at the right time, for the right reasons.  In other words, I believed, I planned, I prepared, I searched, I found and I took action.

Some opportunities sit patiently on a shelf waiting to be discovered and claimed by opportunity shoppers who are willing to pay the price.  There are no special requirements for acquiring the gift except that the purchaser is willing to pay the price.  From then on, the investment creates an incentive to do something meaningful with the opportunity.

There are also legacy opportunities tucked away in a safe place, for the right time, like a dowry or inheritance.  Others are the gifts of our potential.  Still others are gifts of love and attention.

Talent is both a gift and an opportunity.  It’s like a seed waiting to be planted and watered so it can grow to maturity, harvested and put to its intended use.  Talent comes with a purpose.  The purpose of an apple seed is to grow into an apple tree that produces apples.  Talents are the seeds of our lives.

There’s something even more important than just recognizing our gifts and opportunities — full understanding and use of them.  To do this, some key connections must be made.  Let’s call it the Opportunity Progression…

  • Talents – the innate gifts of “potential.” We’re all born with unique sets of abilities.
  • Potential – the God-given gift that enables everything we do AND gives hints about our possibilities.
  • Possibility – the gift of “hope.”  Hope is the attitude of expectations for a better future.
  • Hope – the gift that is built on trust, strengthens faith and inspires courage.
  • Courage – the gift that inspires and fuels action – both proactive a reactive.  Proactive courage leads to preparation.  The reactive gift is the courage to respond.  We need both types of courage.
  • Action – the gift that relies on our inner voice – the gift conscience.
  • Conscience – God’s voice of “purpose.”  It answers the purpose question “Why me?”  Purpose is the gift that reveals true opportunities and redirects action to be focused on right actions.  As such, conscience is the voice of character.
  • YOUR True Opportunities – those opportunities that successfully pass through the entire Opportunity Progression.

The Opportunity Tragedy

Lost and wasted opportunities are one human tragedy we all experience.  At this very moment you are on the brink of missing one because you are unaware, afraid, confused, uncommitted, distracted, ungrateful, arrogant and/or uninformed and therefore, unwilling to claim this opportunity.  Although these are the causes of breakdowns in the Opportunity Progression, there is one simple explanation that covers them all…

Lack of preparation is the cause of lost opportunities.
Preparation is a choice.
Therefore, the loss of opportunities is a choice.

We are who we are and where we are because of the daily choices we make regarding our personal preparation.  The loss of opportunities is the result of not spending enough of our finite resources becoming ready.  What areas of preparation am I referring to?

  • Wisdom – where knowledge, context and experience come together.
  • Beliefs – where wisdom joins with perspective, trust and confidence to form a foundation of truth.
  • Values – the beliefs that matter most to one or more individuals based on personal or shared relevance.
  • Attitudes – the way we feel about our beliefs determines the choices and quality of our actions.
  • Understanding – the ability to form judgments based on knowledge and circumstances.
  • Relationships – the way people interact, align, work and bond with one another.
  • Awareness – recognizing and understanding the events and opportunities around us.
  • Skills – the developed aptitudes, abilities and power to do something with competence.

The more we invest in ALL of these areas, the more valuable opportunities will be accessible to us.  It’s a matter of one choice — to prepare or not prepare, that is the question!

— CC