Is It Just a Coincidence?

During my morning drive time I had a chance to reflect upon the last 24 hours, which included a professional development experience dedicated to two related concepts: Performance and Engagement. As I pondered this theme I came across five words: hope, optimism, possibilities, opportunity and potential.  Thanks to this brief introduction, I’m positioned to ask you a very important question.  Here we go — I trust that you’re ready.  Suppose you were to think deeply about these five words, intent on exposing what they have in common. What would you find?

The answer, of course, is that they all contain the letters “O” and “P, side by side. Did you see it?  I did and I wondered if this pair of letters must possess something potent because even more OP and PO words soon popped into my head — optimized, open, options, opt-in, polished, empowering, popular, poised and polite.  I had stumbled onto a jackpot, an opulence of positivity!  Here’s my conclusion: The words are significant; the letter combos are just a convenient coincidence!

Just the day before, a group of business people met with me to learn and share their positions on “Performance.” The event was titled, “The Art and Power of Engagement.” At the heart of the experience was one of Zig Ziglar’s popular topics: “Positive Attitudes.”  What does it mean? How powerful is it? How can we have more of it in ourselves? How can we use engagement to empower people and help them develop positive attitudes?  The big question which points to the purpose of this story is this: “How does practicing the art of engagement transform lives?”

One more thing — in case you are compelled to count the number of words with OP and PO combos I’ll save you the trouble so you can focus your energy and attention on creating a culture of positivity. Here’s the list of 41 in the order of appearance:

·         Upon
·         Development
·         Pondered
·         Hope
·         Optimism
·         Possibilities
·         Opportunity
·         Potential
·         Positioned
·         Important
·         Suppose
·         Exposing
·         Possess
·         Potent
·         Popped
·         Optimized
·         Open
·         Options
·         Opt-in
·         Polished
·         Empowering
·         Popular
·         Poised
·         Polite
·         Jackpot
·         Opulence
·         Positivity
·         People
·         Positions
·         Power
·         Popular
·         Topics
·         Positive
·         Powerful
·         Empower
·         People
·         Develop
·         Points
·         Purpose
·         Positive
·         Positivity



Preparation – The Law of True Opportunities

Opportunities are Gifts

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True opportunities are the results of alignment with our internal gifts and the happenings in the world.  They are neither accidental nor coincidental.  Just like talents alone, true opportunities are gifts.  Our abilities to benefit from them is the cause-and-effect reward for doing the right things, at the right time, for the right reasons.  In other words, I believed, I planned, I prepared, I searched, I found and I took action.

Some opportunities sit patiently on a shelf waiting to be discovered and claimed by opportunity shoppers who are willing to pay the price.  There are no special requirements for acquiring the gift except that the purchaser is willing to pay the price.  From then on, the investment creates an incentive to do something meaningful with the opportunity.

There are also legacy opportunities tucked away in a safe place, for the right time, like a dowry or inheritance.  Others are the gifts of our potential.  Still others are gifts of love and attention.

Talent is both a gift and an opportunity.  It’s like a seed waiting to be planted and watered so it can grow to maturity, harvested and put to its intended use.  Talent comes with a purpose.  The purpose of an apple seed is to grow into an apple tree that produces apples.  Talents are the seeds of our lives.

There’s something even more important than just recognizing our gifts and opportunities — full understanding and use of them.  To do this, some key connections must be made.  Let’s call it the Opportunity Progression…

  • Talents – the innate gifts of “potential.” We’re all born with unique sets of abilities.
  • Potential – the God-given gift that enables everything we do AND gives hints about our possibilities.
  • Possibility – the gift of “hope.”  Hope is the attitude of expectations for a better future.
  • Hope – the gift that is built on trust, strengthens faith and inspires courage.
  • Courage – the gift that inspires and fuels action – both proactive a reactive.  Proactive courage leads to preparation.  The reactive gift is the courage to respond.  We need both types of courage.
  • Action – the gift that relies on our inner voice – the gift conscience.
  • Conscience – God’s voice of “purpose.”  It answers the purpose question “Why me?”  Purpose is the gift that reveals true opportunities and redirects action to be focused on right actions.  As such, conscience is the voice of character.
  • YOUR True Opportunities – those opportunities that successfully pass through the entire Opportunity Progression.

The Opportunity Tragedy

Lost and wasted opportunities are one human tragedy we all experience.  At this very moment you are on the brink of missing one because you are unaware, afraid, confused, uncommitted, distracted, ungrateful, arrogant and/or uninformed and therefore, unwilling to claim this opportunity.  Although these are the causes of breakdowns in the Opportunity Progression, there is one simple explanation that covers them all…

Lack of preparation is the cause of lost opportunities.
Preparation is a choice.
Therefore, the loss of opportunities is a choice.

We are who we are and where we are because of the daily choices we make regarding our personal preparation.  The loss of opportunities is the result of not spending enough of our finite resources becoming ready.  What areas of preparation am I referring to?

  • Wisdom – where knowledge, context and experience come together.
  • Beliefs – where wisdom joins with perspective, trust and confidence to form a foundation of truth.
  • Values – the beliefs that matter most to one or more individuals based on personal or shared relevance.
  • Attitudes – the way we feel about our beliefs determines the choices and quality of our actions.
  • Understanding – the ability to form judgments based on knowledge and circumstances.
  • Relationships – the way people interact, align, work and bond with one another.
  • Awareness – recognizing and understanding the events and opportunities around us.
  • Skills – the developed aptitudes, abilities and power to do something with competence.

The more we invest in ALL of these areas, the more valuable opportunities will be accessible to us.  It’s a matter of one choice — to prepare or not prepare, that is the question!

— CC